Heaven Ministries

November 05 
Volume 3 Issue 24

Marriage Alive! Newsletter

Spiritual Growth For Marriage

Marriage Articles

6 Biblical Aspects on Spiritual Growth For Marriage

1. Spiritual growth
is gradual

2. Understanding
the process of spiritual growth

3. God prunes us

4. Strengthening

5. How to continue
basing your
marriage upon the
foundations of God


Truly Italian
Marinara Sauce


Projects in the works

 New Marriage Book 
by Angie Lewis
"Love The Man You Married" 

A marriage handbook for women. 


Journey on the Roads Less Traveled 
by Angie Lewis

Unique Christian based marriage book avaliable


5 Biblical Aspects on Spiritual Growth For Marriage

Marriage takes two to make it a team. Are you a team player working towards the good in all areas of your marriage? Are you growing spiritually with your spouse? Are you allowing your faith to intervene in your marriage where it should?

1. Spiritual growth is gradual not instant

It takes times to learn deep spiritual growth for your marriage. Learning to walk with Jesus is something that a husband and wife can do together. It can be an enjoyable learning experience that will bring you closer together and will help bond the sanctity of your marriage.

When a person becomes a Christian, he or she is given a new life through the power of the Holy Spirit.  Jesus Christ sets us free from our evil desires by his spiritual operation--The Holy Spirit.

Christian growth is a lifetime process, meaning we don't automatically start thinking good thoughts and have a pure attitude about everything! These things take time and much wisdom from God. This is why it is often called a "spiritual growth process". Sometimes change seems slow but your marriage will change significantly if you keep trusting in God to build it up.

The more we trust in Jesus Christ, the sharper our vision becomes, which increases our understanding. James1:22-25

"Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says, Anyone who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at himself in the mirror and after looking at himself, goes away and immediately forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard, but doing it-he will be blessed in what he does." James1:22-25

2. Understanding the process of spiritual growth for your marriage

There is a wonderful little parable in the bible about the Kingdom of God recorded by Mark that reveals how spiritual growth is a continual and gradual process that is finally consummated in a harvest of spiritual maturity. We can understand how this process works by comparing it to the slow but gradual growth of a plant. 

If we forget to water the plant it will die. Marriage is the same way. Let's remember to water our marriage on a regular basis so it won't dry out. We do this by trusting in God and letting him water us first. Once we are watered we can give more of ourselves to the marriage. 

"This is what the kingdom of God is like. A man scatters seed on the ground. Night and day, whether he sleeps or gets up, the seed sprouts and grows, though he does not know how. All by itself the soil produces grain - first the stalk, then the head, then the full kernel in the head. As soon as the grain is ripe, he puts the sickle to it, because the harvest has come." Mark 4:26-29

3. God prunes us, which ultimately strengthens our marriage. 

Jesus Christ is the vine. God is the gardener who cares for the branches (us) to make them fruitful. There are two kinds of pruning that God does.  (1)separating and (2) cutting back branches. Fruitful branches are cut back to promote growth. In other words, God will discipline us to strengthen our character and faith. 

The branches that do not bare fruit are cut off from the vine (Jesus).  People who won't bear fruit for God or those who try to block the efforts of God's followers will be cut off from God's life-giving power. 

Jesus said, "He cuts off every branch that bears no fruit, while every branch that does bear fruit he prunes so that it will be even more fruitful." John 15:2-3

4. Strengthening faith

The bible says we are all strong in some areas and weak in others. Our faith is strong if we can avoid sinning when we are around others who are sinning.  If our faith is weak in certain areas we must avoid those things that might be tempting for us. 

We need to ask ourselves,  "Can I do that without sinning?"  "Can I go there without sinning?"  "Can I be a good influence to others instead of falling into sin with them?"  Find out what your strengths and weakness are.  

God wants us to use our faith towards the good of our marriage. If we have strong faith in certain areas but shelter that faith, we will not be doing Christ's work for the marriage. If we have a weak area of faith in marriage and we expose it, we will be behaving like the world (culture) does for their marriage and that would be extremely foolish, wouldn't it? 

The bible reveals to us some very important points about the weak and the strong in faith. 

"Accept him whose faith is weak, without passing judgment on disputable matters. One mans faith allows him to eat everything, but another man, whose faith is weak, eats only vegetables. The man who eats everything must not look down on him who does not, and the man who does not eat everything must not condemn the man who does, for God has accepted him. Romans 14:1-4

5. How to continue basing your marriage upon the foundations of God

St. Paul has offered us a strategy to help us to live day by day for God. 

1.) Imitate Christ's compassion and forgiving attitude. Is there something that you need to forgive your spouse for?

2.) Let love guide your life as much as you possibly can. We show love by doing, not by saying. Have you shown your spouse loving kindness today? 

3.) Let the peace of Jesus rule your heart and mind. We do this by realizing all there is to be thankful for.  

...Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. 

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God. And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to the Father through Him. Colossians 3: 12-17


Truly Italian
Marinara Sauce

This recipe is truly Italian. I am married to an Italian who moved here from Italy when he was 15 years old. This recipe comes from his mother and is a family favorite. I hope you enjoy it!


1lb Roma tomatoes (chopped)
4 cloves garlic (chopped)
1 12 ounce can unsalted tomatoes
1 tsp basil
1/2 tsp oregano
1 tsp sea salt
Olive oil for cooking
Fresh Romano Cheese grated
2 lbs of your favorite pasta
Serves 6 to 8 people


In sauce pan cook garlic in 1/4 cup olive oil on medium heat until lightly golden.
Add chopped tomatoes, turn down to medium low and cover and cook for 5 minutes. Smash tomatoes with wooden spoon.
Add can of tomato sauce and stir in herbs and salt, let cook for 5 more minutes. Pour over your favorite pasta. Be sure to have Roman Cheese grated on the side for personal use on each dish. Serve with a salad and a hard crusty loaf of Italian or French breadEnjoy!

To add a new feature to this monthly newsletter, I have decide that I will add a new recipe to each newsletter.  These recipes will be some of my families favorites. I hope you will find them as tasty and trouble free as I do. 

~~ Happy Thanksgiving! 

Have a blessed and peaceful holiday!

Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be trouble and do not be afraid. John 14:27