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5
Ways to Love The Woman You Married I’m going to tell
you in a nutshell, a better way to love the woman you married. Is that
okay with you? It is called loving with wisdom. Do these 5 things on a
consistent basis and, after one month let me know if your marriage has
improved or not. Listen
to Your Wife Do you listen to
what your wife is saying? You listen to your boss when he is rambling
on, don’t you? You listen to your naïve buddies tell you all kinds of
things that don’t really matter in life, don’t you? Well then, why
aren’t you listening to your wife? Start really hearing what she has
to say and be supportive of her feelings and opinions. That means,
opening up your ears and being perceptive to your wife’s needs. Appreciate
Your Wife When was the last
time you told your wife how much you really appreciate her and all the
things she does? A woman
puts out a lot more energy into the home and family affairs than the
husband does. Sometimes she may feel as if she is the only one doing
anything around the house and this is when she starts getting bossy and
naggy with you. I encourage you
husband’s to start appreciating your wife for all that she does for
you and the family. Marriage can be such a beautiful relationship when
you show your love with wisdom. Stop
just for a moment, and mediate on the beautiful woman you married. Be
thankful that God gave her to you. Realize how blessed you are to have
this woman as your wife and know that she is your right arm and
sometimes your left arm too. Make your wife feel good about who she is
and all that she does. Please
Your Wife Sexually There is a
difference between having sex and making love. Sex is a one sided
selfish act that is mostly enjoyed by the husband.
Women need a bit more pampering and nurturing in the bedroom. I
mean, what does a woman get out of five minutes of copulation? Okay, so
it takes a little bit more time to please your wife, and you’re tired,
so make love in the afternoon or early morning. You do have options.
Love your wife with wisdom and start pleasing the woman you married. Be
More Helpful Be more helpful by
“asking” your wife if there is anything she needs you to do around
the house, in the kitchen, or in the yard. For instance, she isn’t the
only one who eats dinner you know. Maybe she would like some help
chopping up vegetables, setting the table, or loading the dishwasher.
She probably has mowed your yard for you, so give back in return
and do some extra things for her around the house. She will be pleased
that you did. Be the Man of the House Be her man and
she’ll want to be your woman. Did you know that your wife becomes
bossy and domineering because you are not listening to her? She feels
unloved and unneeded by you when you take her for granted instead of
appreciating all that she does for you and the family? A
woman needs to be valued by her husband. This gives her more love to
give to you. If you want a
humble and kind wife then don’t behave as if you are better than her. Share
your feelings with your wife and get close with her. Don’t be afraid
to let down your guard once in awhile. If you have emotions that are not
getting met, talk to your wife about it. A wife wants to be there for
her husband but if you don’t let your wife in, how can she help?
If you want a
feminine, humble and kind wife, then don’t try and control her to be
what you want her to be. She needs to be her own person. What you can do
though, is control yourself to behave a certain way that makes your wife
want to submit to your loving influence. Be
a good example and she will want to surrender her love to that example. Love your wife with wisdom. To the man who
pleases him, God gives wisdom, knowledge, and happiness. Ecclesiastes
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